Undercover: I am unique

duminică, martie 23, 2008

I am unique

Un test furat de la Stingo, ca de obicei. Spune niste chestii despre mine, in mare parte adevarate. Nu stiu la ce-mi ajuta acum, dar poate alta data... ;)

Nu trebuie decat sa raspund la doua intrebari, si pe baza raspunsului sunt incadrata intr-o anume categorie. Se pare ca sunt un 'patru'. Numarul in sine nu cred ca are vreo importanta, doar explicatiile aferente.

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So, I'm a FOUR (aka "The Romantic") and "I am unique".

Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me

Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
Be a supportive friend or partner.
Help me learn to love and value myself.
Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being a FOUR

my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level;
my ability to establish warm connections with people;
admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life;
my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor;
being unique and being seen as unique by others;
having aesthetic sensibilities;
being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me.

What's Hard About Being a FOUR

experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair;
feelings of self-hatred and shame;
believing I don't deserve to be loved;
feeling guilty when I disappoint people;
feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me;
expecting too much from myself and life;
fearing being abandoned;
obsessing over resentments;
longing for what I don't have.

FOURs as Children Often

have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games;
are very sensitive;
feel that they don't fit in;
believe they are missing something that other people have;
attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.;
become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood;
feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce).

FOURs as Parents

help their children become who they really are;
support their children's creativity and originality;
are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings;
are sometimes overly critical or overly protective;